Marriage is tough. To make it work, it takes work. There isn't one successful marriage that became this way simply by chance. If you are staring divorce in the face, clearly something is wrong in the marriage that needs to be fixed. Divorce is one of the hardest things to go through and if it can be avoided and the marriage restored, it is worth every effort. If you are asking yourself how you can save your marriage and get your spouse back, here are some tips.